“4 EVER 4 ME” is the closing track on Demi Lovato’s eighth studio album, HOLY FVCK.

The powerful end to the Punk-Rock album describes Lovato’s resilience in getting back up once again to fall in love; this time, perhaps, forever.

I wrote it, and my whole heart is in that song.

This track remains to be one of the few that Lovato confidently describes as a “Love song.”

I actually haven’t written love songs in a long time. Like, I don’t think ther— If I go through my catalogue, there’s maybe like three or four love songs in the past few albums. […] But actually writing a song about “Hey, I’m in love with you; I found it,” like, that has not existed in a lot of my music. […] I started feeling these feelings and I was like, “I have to get them out of my chest.”
– Demi Lovato via Apple Music

Lovato expresses that they want the listeners to feel comfort in finding love and sometimes messy events happen, but you should never give up because it’s always worth finding the happiness in the end.

Life can be a rollercoaster. If you make it through the lows, it makes the highs so much sweeter.

This song was one of the many songs from HOLY FVCK that was performed live before release in Springfield, Illinois on August 13, 2022 and Des Moines, Iowa on August 14, 2022. The song itself was performed as a medley preceding Lovato’s cover of Iris by the ‘80s rock band, The Goo Goo Dolls.
“Iris” was written for the 1998 film, City of Angels, which may be a reference by the ninth track of the album, under the same name.

I wanted to write a song that was— Y'know, inspired by “Iris” by The Goo Goo Dolls.
– Demi Lovato via Apple Music