Call Me When You’re Sober Lyrics
Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me
Come find me
Make up your mind
[Verse 1]
Should I let you fall
Lose it all?
So maybe you can remember yourself
Can't keep believing
We're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie
[Pre-Chorus]
And you're too late
[Chorus]
Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me
Come find me
Make up your mind
Couldn't take the blame
Sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game
Selfishly hated
No wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time
[Pre-Chorus]
And you're too late
[Chorus]
So don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me
Come find me
Make up your mind
[Post-Chorus]
You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over
Ah, it's over
[Bridge]
How could I
Have burned paradise?
How could I
You were never mine
So don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me
Just get your things
I've made up your mind
About
As one of the last songs recorded for The Open Door, “Call Me When You’re Sober” was predominantly inspired by Amy Lee’s ex-boyfriend and Seether frontman, Shaun Morgan. In an MTV News interview, Amy Lee spoke about the song being very personal to her:
It was very brave for me, the lyric writing, because I was just sick of hiding behind metaphors in all that I had been writing. So much of the record was about the turmoil I was going through, with choosing between happiness and comfort. In the end, I had to choose happiness and health for myself. I made the right decision. I was letting myself be run down.
Directed by Marc Webb, the accompanying music video is based upon modern re-imagining of Little Red Riding Hood. Due to the literal nature of the song and its lyrics, Amy Lee explained the importance for the video to “have the freedom to go in a less literal direction.” In 2007, “Call Me When You’re Sober” earned Evanescence two nominations in the best video categories at the MuchMusic Video Awards and NRJ Music Awards.
The song wasn’t originally intended for inclusion on the album, according to Amy Lee’s father, John Lee. “It was just a little ditty she was working on and singing on her piano at home to purge herself of a past boyfriend. She said she would laugh out loud while she was writing and singing it and thought it was funny,” he added.
Upon its release, “Call Me When You’re Sober” received generally positive reviews from critics, and the song peaked at number 10 on the Billboard Top 100.
Q&A
Find answers to frequently asked questions about the song and explore its deeper meaning
Regarding the meaning of this track, Amy Lee told Songfacts:
Well, for me that song is more about a breakup. The ending of a relationship and getting to the place with yourself where you’re finally willing to stand up for yourself. Put your foot down when you know you need to. It’s the harder path to step out into the unknown.
“It’s easy for me to apply that across the board to lots of situations in my life. When I’m singing that live, I definitely have different places where I go with it these days.”
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