This is a song is about loss (in the sense of relationships), loneliness, and frustration. How do you grieve over a lover that left you for all the wrong reasons? How do you process being left for a younger woman, a more attractive woman, a woman who more conspicuously conforms to today’s ideas of ‘sexy’? Sullivan is both angry here – you hear it in the final bridge – but also willing to be vulnerable, to admit the hurt and confusion, to own it. The song, with its themes of male dissatisfaction no matter what, recalls a classic J Cole lyric: ‘always gon’ be a b*tch that’s badder out there on the tours / but you ain’t never gon' be happy til you love yours.'