Dammit
Alexandra Kay Lyrics


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It's alright to tell me
What you think about me
I won't try to argue
Or hold it against you
I know that you're leaving
You must have your reasons
The season is calling
Your pictures are falling down

The steps that I retrace
The sad look on your face
Timing and structure
Did you hear he loves her?
A day late, a buck short
I'm writing the report
On losing and failing
When I move, I'm flailing now

And it's happened once again
I'll turn to a friend
Someone who understands
And sees through the master plan
But everybody's gone
And I've been here for too long
To face this on my own
Well, I guess this is growing up

And maybe I'll see you
At a movie sneak preview
You'll show up and walk by
On the arm of that guy
And I'll smile and you'll wave
We'll pretend that it's okay
The charade, it won't last
When he's gone, I won't come back

And it'll happen once again
You'll turn to a friend
Someone who understands
Sees through the master plan
But everybody's gone
You've been here for too long
To face this on your own
Well, I guess this is growing up




Well, I guess this is growing up, mm
This is growing up

Overall Meaning

Alexandra Kay’s song "Dammit" is a cover of the Blink-182 song of the same name, which was released in 1997. The narrative of the song revolves around heartbreak and growing up. The lyrics are conversational in tone, with the singer reflecting on a failed relationship and confronting the reality of growing up. The song begins with the singer acknowledging that the person she once loved is leaving and that she understands that they must have their reasons. The season is changing, and reminders of their relationship are falling down around her in the form of pictures.


The second verse reflects on the singer’s own struggles with moving on from the relationship. The line “Did you hear he loves her?” suggests that there is another woman who has come between the two lovers. The singer is lamenting that she missed her chance and is writing a report on losing in love. She acknowledges that she is lost and flailing in her attempt to move on. The chorus reveals that the singer has no one left to turn to for comfort; all her friends have moved on in their own lives, leaving her to face the harsh reality of growing up alone. The final verse reflects on the possibility of seeing her ex-lover again in the future. She imagines a scenario where they bump into each other at a movie sneak preview, and she sees that he is with someone else. They smile and wave, pretending that everything is okay, but the singer acknowledges that the charade won’t last.


Line by Line Meaning

It's alright to tell me
The singer is creating a safe and open space for their listener to share their thoughts and opinions.


What you think about me
The listener is given permission to express their honest opinions and feelings about the singer.


I won't try to argue
The singer promises to listen without judgement or argument.


Or hold it against you
The artist will not hold the listener's thoughts or feelings against them in the future.


I know that you're leaving
The artist is aware that the listener is leaving or has left for a reason.


You must have your reasons
The singer acknowledges that the listener has valid reasons for leaving, even if they are not aware of them.


The season is calling
The singer is experiencing a change or transition in their life, possibly related to a change in seasons.


Your pictures are falling down
The listener's presence is fading or disappearing in the artist's life.


The steps that I retrace
The artist is retracing their steps or reflecting on their past experiences.


The sad look on your face
The listener's departure has left the artist feeling sad and lonely.


Timing and structure
The events and circumstances of the situation are causing the singer distress and confusion.


Did you hear he loves her?
The artist is aware of a third party involved in the situation, possibly a love interest of the listener.


A day late, a buck short
The singer feels like they are too late to change the outcome of the situation, and are not able to make up for their mistakes.


I'm writing the report
The singer is processing their emotions and experiences through writing.


On losing and failing
The singer is reflecting on their past failures and losses.


When I move, I'm flailing now
The artist feels lost and uncertain about their next steps.


And it's happened once again
The artist is experiencing a repeated pattern or cycle of events.


I'll turn to a friend
The singer will seek comfort and support from a trusted friend.


Someone who understands
The singer will seek out someone who is empathetic and able to relate to their experiences.


And sees through the master plan
The artist's friend is able to see the larger pattern or plan in the situation.


But everybody's gone
The artist's support system has disappeared.


And I've been here for too long
The artist feels trapped or stuck in their current situation.


To face this on my own
The singer is struggling and needs external support to face their challenges.


Well, I guess this is growing up
The artist is coming to terms with their situation and accepting it as part of the process of growing up.


And maybe I'll see you
The singer acknowledges the possibility of seeing the listener again in the future.


At a movie sneak preview
The singer imagines a specific scenario in which they may encounter the listener.


You'll show up and walk by
The singer imagines the listener walking past them with someone else.


On the arm of that guy
The listener is imagined to be with another person, possibly a new romantic interest.


And I'll smile and you'll wave
The artist imagines a cordial but potentially awkward interaction with the listener.


We'll pretend that it's okay
Both parties will act like everything is fine, even though it may not be.


The charade, it won't last
The facade of pretending that everything is okay will eventually crumble.


When he's gone, I won't come back
The artist will not return to the same situation or dynamics after the listener's new interest is gone.


You've been here for too long
The listener has been present in the artist's life for too long, and may have overstayed their welcome or caused too much baggage.


Well, I guess this is growing up
Both parties are coming to terms with the changes and growing pains of life.


Well, I guess this is growing up, mm
This is a repeated refrain that emphasizes the theme of growing up and moving on.


This is growing up
This is the final conclusion that both parties have reached: growing up and moving on from the past.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Hoppus, Scott Raynor, Thomas DeLonge

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Nousawi

It's alright to tell me
What you think about me
I won't try to argue
Or hold it against you

I know that you're leaving
You must have your reasons
The season is calling
Your pictures are falling down

The steps that I retrace
The sad look on your face
The timing and structure
Did you hear he loved her?

A day late, a buck short
I'm writing the report
On losing and failing
When I move, I'm flailing now

And it's happened once again
I'll turn to a friend
Someone that understands
And sees through the master plan
But everybody's gone
And I've been here for too long
To face this on my own
Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up

And maybe I'll see you
At a movie sneak preview
You'll show up and walk by
On the arm of that guy

And I'll smile and you'll wave
We'll pretend it's okay
This charade, it won't last
When he's gone, I won't come back
And it'll happen once again
You'll turn to a friend
Someone that understands
And sees through the master plan

But everybody's gone
And you've been here for too long
To face this on your own

Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up
Well, I guess this is growing up



All comments from YouTube:

@kennylifts

"Did you hear, he loves her." 😭Thats so much more heartbreaking!!

@MK-285

I was wondering how she was gonna handle that line. Didn't think the original like fit the vibe. She nailed it!🔨👌

@MrCanadaBeers

100% agree

@mysticdreamer364

All of us Blink 182 fans know this song always hit us hard...this rendition is amazing and really helps anyone else understand the meaning behind it.

@Fatima-bi2sm

Right! She is singing this for those that have missed out on this song for the last 30 years.

@keriburton4705

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@francissampson3258

That is the perfect comment! Cause not everyone has the same interests in music types and coming from someone who listens to everything and loved blinks version! Im one who take the lyrics in more than music or anything else and there’s so many rap, heavy metal, punk emo, and other song that the lyrics are deep but some people don’t know them so it’s great to see these kind of songs done differently for other people to feel the power of the lyrics

@The_B3aver

It was already a sad song... but damn... this comment hits hard

@israelperez6277

Didn’t really appreciate the lyrics until this song

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@tilanaclaydon1576

Not only does this show her amazing voice but also Blinks amazing songwriting

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