Dangling Conversation
joan baez & dar williams Lyrics
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Of a now late afternoon
As the sun shines through the curtained lace
And shadows wash the room
And we sit and drink our coffee
Couched in our indifference
Like shells upon the shore
In the dangling conversation
And the superficial sighs
The borders of our lives
And you read your Emily Dickinson
And I my Robert Frost
And we note our place with bookmarkers
That measure what we've lost
Like a poem poorly written
We are verses out of rhythm
Couplets out of rhyme in syncopated time
And the dangled conversation
And the superficial sighs
Are the borders of our lives
Yes, we speak of things that matter
With words that must be said
"Can analysis be worthwhile?"
"Is the church really dead?"
And how the room is softly faded
And I only kiss your shadow
I cannot feel your hand
You're a stranger now unto me
Lost in the dangling conversation
And the superficial sighs
That are the borders of our lives
The Dangling Conversation by Joan Baez is a poetic commentary on the demise of a relationship due to apathy and lack of effort. The opening lines describe the scenescape - a still life watercolor of an afternoon in which the sun is shining through the curtains, creating shadows in the room. The couple is sitting and drinking coffee but couching their conversation in an air of indifference, like shells on a shore. The ocean roaring in the background represents the missed opportunities to connect.
The second verse highlights the mismatched nature of the couple's communication. While one reads Emily Dickinson, the other reads Robert Frost; their bookmarks noting what they've lost. They are disjointed in their thoughts and unable to establish a rhythm. The "dangled conversation" and "superficial sighs" become the only defining feature of their alliance.
The final verse exemplifies the couple's lack of connection. There is a subtle longing hinted at through the observation of the soft fading of the room and the kiss of a shadow, but the lack of physical sensation highlights the emotional distance between the couple. They speak of things that matter but the words feel hollow and detached. The "dangling conversation" and "superficial sighs" have become the "borders of their alliance" and they are lost to each other.
Line by Line Meaning
It's a still life water color,
The scene, like a watercolor painting, is still and peaceful
Of a now late afternoon,
The time of day is late afternoon
As the sun shines through the curtained lace
The sun is shining through the curtains, casting shadows on the room
And shadows wash the room.
The shadows create a calming atmosphere as they cover the room
And we sit and drink our coffee
The couple is sitting and enjoying their coffee
Couched in our indifference,
Despite being together, they are emotionally distant
Like shells upon the shore
Their emotional distance is comparable to the distance between the shells on a beach
You can hear the ocean roar
Despite their emotional distance, they can still feel the power of their surroundings
In the dangling conversation
Their conversations lack substance and purpose
And the superficial sighs,
They breathe superficial sighs, indicating a lack of genuine emotion
The borders of our alliance.
Their relationship is limited and constrained by their emotional distance
And you read your Emily Dickinson,
The woman is reading the works of Emily Dickinson
And I my Robert Frost,
The man is reading the works of Robert Frost
And we note our place with bookmarkers
They use bookmarks to mark their progress in their respective books
That measure what we've lost.
The bookmarks represent their lost connection
Like a poem poorly written
Their relationship is like a poorly written poem
We are verses out of rhythm,
Their lack of connection is like verses out of rhythm in a song
Couplets out of rhyme,
Their lack of connection is like rhyming couplets that do not actually rhyme
In syncopated time
Their relationship is out of sync and lacks harmony
And the dangled conversation
They continue their conversations with no real end goal
And the superficial sighs,
They continue to sigh superficially, devoid of true emotion
Are the borders of our alliance.
Their lack of connection is what defines their relationship
Yes, we speak of things that matter,
Occasionally, they attempt to speak about important issues
With words that must be said,
They discuss these issues with the understanding that they are important
"Can analysis be worthwhile?"
One of the important issues they discuss is whether analysis is really valuable
"Is the theater really dead?"
Another important issue they discuss is whether theater is still relevant
And how the room is softly faded
As the day fades, the room around them fades as well
And I only kiss your shadow,
The man cannot connect emotionally with the woman, only her shadow
I cannot feel your hand,
The man cannot feel the woman's touch
You're a stranger now unto me
The man feels completely disconnected from the woman
Lost in the dangling conversation.
Their meaningless conversations have caused them to lose their connection
And the superficial sighs,
They continue to sigh superficially, indicating their disconnection
In the borders of our alliance.
Their emotional distance defines their relationship and limits their connection
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@suzannelawson9215
This is so lovely, lovely, lovely! How beautiful their voices sound together. How wonderful it would be to hear an entire album of Joan and Dar singing as a duo.
@serenapridgen2436
love this song
@drmrinalkantinath4336
I have never heard it. This is a great experience to listen to JB. Thanks.
@AnjanChakraborty
@mgettel
Great! When was this recorded? I would love more Dar-Joan duets!
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