The song "Tolerate It" by Taylor Swift (Turkish translation by Genius Türkçe Çeviri) delves into the emotions and experiences of a person who feels unheard and unappreciated in a relationship. The lyrics depict a sense of longing for acknowledgment and validation, as well as the frustration of feeling ignored.
In the first verse, the narrator describes observing their partner's actions and growth, seemingly aware of everything they do or don't do. There is a sense of detachment as the narrator watches their partner from a distance, possibly feeling invisible or insignificant.
The chorus portrays the narrator waiting patiently like a child by the door, putting in their best effort to please the partner, and decorating the table in an extravagant manner. Despite these gestures, they feel as if they are merely being tolerated rather than genuinely appreciated. The narrator questions if they may have misunderstood something or if the partner truly tolerates them.
The second verse continues to emphasize the narrator's observant role as they greet their partner like a war hero and disregard their behavior. The act of polishing plates until they shine suggests the narrator's dedication to perfection, possibly seeking approval or recognition.
The bridge explores the contrast between the narrator's investment in the relationship and their partner's seemingly distant and uninvolved attitude. The narrator wonders where they were when their partner built other worlds and where the person who used to comfort them went. They express a longing to be an essential part of their partner's life, but now they beg to be even a footnote in their story.
The chorus is repeated, highlighting the narrator's desire for freedom and the acknowledgment of the emotional weight they carry. They contemplate the idea of leaving and the consequences it would have on the relationship. The mention of the dagger symbolizes the pain caused by the partner's indifference.
Finally, the song concludes with the narrator watching their partner, suggesting a continuous cycle of feeling ignored and unappreciated.
Overall, "Tolerate It" expresses the emotional struggles of feeling unnoticed and taken for granted in a relationship, as well as the longing for genuine recognition and love.