He certainly did earn that reputation.
I don't care if you never come home,
I don't mind if you just keep on
Rowing away on a distant sea,
Cause I don't love you and you don't love me.
You cause a commotion when you come to town;
You give 'em a smile and they melt.
Having lovers and friends is all good and fine,
But I don't like yours and you don't like mine.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
I don't care what you do at night,
Oh, and I don't care how you get your delights.
I'm gonna leave you alone, I'll just let it be,
I don't love you and you don't love me.
I got a problem. Can you relate?
I got a woman calling love hate.
We made a vow we'd always be friends.
How could we know that promises end?
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
I tried to love you for years upon years,
You refuse to take me for real.
It's time you saw what I want you to see,
And I'd still love you if you'd just love me.
Chorus
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
I don't mind if you just keep on
Rowing away on a distant sea,
Cause I don't love you and you don't love me.
You cause a commotion when you come to town;
You give 'em a smile and they melt.
Having lovers and friends is all good and fine,
But I don't like yours and you don't like mine.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
I don't care what you do at night,
Oh, and I don't care how you get your delights.
I'm gonna leave you alone, I'll just let it be,
I don't love you and you don't love me.
I got a problem. Can you relate?
I got a woman calling love hate.
We made a vow we'd always be friends.
How could we know that promises end?
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
I tried to love you for years upon years,
You refuse to take me for real.
It's time you saw what I want you to see,
And I'd still love you if you'd just love me.
Chorus
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
La la, la la la la la.
Lyrics submitted by catherineks
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I don't care if you never come home I don't mind if you just keep on rowin' away on a distant sea Cus I don't love you and you don't love me
(My wife's modeling career began to take off when I started pulling away. We both grew up in a country town and when she started traveling for work, I became very angry that her new world was stealing her from me. I was so hurt that I lied to myself that I didn't love her because I thought that I couldn't compete with the world's fashion scene. When she traveled to Europe and the more she was away, the more I thought she didn't love me. I told my friends that I hoped she would permanently stay away to ease the pain.)
You cause a commotion when you come to town You give 'em a smile and they melt And your lovers and friends is all good and fine But I don't like yours and you don't like mine
(I accompanied her to Milan once and went to some very large parties with her. The people at these parties would go wild when we arrived. Everyone knew her. Everyone would do anything for her. I felt I could do nothing special for her. She was theirs. They were hers. I did not fit in. These people would never mingle with "my world" and my friends/world would never think of fitting into theirs.)
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I got a problem can you relate I got a woman callin' love hate We made a vow we'd always be friends How could we know that promises end
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I tried to love for years upon years You refuse to take me for real It's time you saw what I want you to see I'd still love you if you'd just love me
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@Jeepdude6 Jesus christ, what a story! Now when I think of this song, I'm going to think of this. Thank you for sharing, really powerful interpretation.
@Jeepdude6 I cried reading this. I actually think of your story whenever I hear it on the radio. This is such a beautiful, painful, yet romantic story. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️
@Jeepdude6 what happened with her career? Did she end up having to give it up? Sorry, I am so enamored by your story because it is vaguely similar to the struggles that my boyfriend and I have had. Ironically, I'm pursuing modeling as a hobby to express myself creatively. My boyfriend is very dominant and protective and he feels very possessive and jealous if I want to shoot with someone else. In turn, I've become resentful because I don't have creative freedom and feel more stifled. It came to the point where we both were resenting each other and it felt like we were living the same crappy day over and over. I finally said that I felt empty and I can't keep doing this. He finally fully opened his (stubborn) heart and admitted that he needed me. We are working through things and keeping an open line of communication.<br /> We are still together.❤️
@Kinkyvinylgirl - The expiration date for fashion models is very short. Linda had a blast. She also had a nice compilation book published that means the world to her. We're still together and we still live on our farm. She is the most beautiful eoman in the world. She still goes to parties for magazines, and I stay home with the kids. I go on hunting trips, and then she stays home. That's our give and take. The only difference is that when she travels, she takes 5 bags! I take a backpack! Keep communication open with your guy. That's all we need. [Just don't tell him all of the fun your having, he won't be able to relate!]
@Jeepdude6 I know this is an old comment but you have made me understand what my husband and I have been going through for 22 years...... I could feel it but I could never put it into words. Thank you for your honesty!! and sharing!!! Hope you and your wife are still rocking along!!
@Jeepdude6 very powerful. Thank you for the self disclosure. Well written and well said.
There seems to be little mystery here...
This is a man coming to a long-overdue conclusion that a woman he's always wanted to be with will never accept his love. He has become indifferent to what she does only to protect himself, and in the end, he is ending the relationship for his own good. Until there comes a day when she can see it the way he has always done so, he is giving up in order to move on.
This is exactly what I am going through and that is exactly what this song means to me. I keep listening to it over and over
I've been reading Clapton's biography, and I believe he may have written this song about Pattie Smith. He was madly in love with her, despite her marriage to George Harrison at the time, and even after Eric and Pattie wed, there was still unfaithfulness and hurt in their relationship. Just throwing my opinion out there...
i have to be honest it sounds like you have no idea what you're talking about. first of all, you're referring to Patti Boyd not Pattie Smith. Pattie Smith was the 'godmother of punk' and very influential in the mid to late 70's specifically with American rockers. she was in very few ways tied to British invasion legends like Harrison and Clapton. while your factoids about Claptons love life are true, the lyrics to this song do not imply that and its a little bit of a stretch to imply that the song is necessarily about Patti Boyd to the same extend some of his others are. case in point would be that the song does not appear on Layla and Other Assorted Love Songs, an album that is widely known as being largely inspired by Patti Boyd. furthermore, the couple got married in 1979, whereas the song was released in 1978. it seems unlikely that he would have released this love song (palpably negative in tone) before the couple even married and ipso-facto before what would seem to be the climax of their mutual adoration.
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@falloutgirl1014: Promises wasn't written by Clapton. Richard Feldman and Roger Linn are credited with writing it.
I'm going to start this off by saying that this song is awesome. Although it was not written by Clapton. it is about a man who still has feelings for a woman after they broke up
I don't care if you never come home, I don't mind if you just keep on Rowing away on a distant sea, Cause I don't love you and you don't love me.
I don't care what you do at night, Oh, and I don't care how you get your delights. I'm gonna leave you alone, I'll just let it be, I don't love you and you don't love me.
-He never imagined that this would happen to them since they had made promises to be there for each other forever.
I got a problem. Can you relate? I got a woman calling love hate. We made a vow we'd always be friends. How could we know that promises end?
I tried to love you for years upon years, You refuse to take me for real. It's time you saw what I want you to see, And I'd still love you if you'd just love me.
I love the song.... Would kinda like to dedicate it to my wife, if we get divorced. So i find thats what its about, together for years upon years.... I dont like your freinds and you dont like mine, i could care less what she does on her time, but im willing to love her if she could remember to love me like when we started. That went out the window along with her commitment to our marriage. I stay, dissatisfied, " i got a problem, can you relate?" But its for the sake of our children and agreement of matrimony and kids, and of course i will hold my end and love her for better or worse.
or maybe its about someone who's been in a relationship with someone and he realizes that she doesn't love him anymore, but he still loves her.
This is the song that reminds me of my divorce. I wanted to end it so bad. I was just tired of her and her ways. She would come and go, and just expect me to be there waiting, like it was no big deal. I was filled with anger, hurt feelings. And when we finally split. I wanted her back so bad, that I was willing to take her back regardless of her infidelities and problems.
i don't know what exactly this song is about , but i do know that its fucking good.
The first time I heard this song was on a radio station, and it just sucked me right in. I didn't recognize Eric Clapton's voice and was lucky enough to find the name of the song and artist by looking on the radio's online website. It has a powerful message and has a unique beat to it. The la la la... part is cool, too. It's definitely about a rocky relationship, with 2 people who each have their own habits that are tearing the relationship apart ("I got a problem, can you relate?").