Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Wake up
We have the time of our lives
Lost the rest of our minds
And all your makeup
Faded down from your eyes
Now I could see what's behind
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be so cruel this time?
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be such a beautiful lie?
Don't know why, I try
'Cause now I'm done inside
I don't know what it's like
To live a life of new one
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
Break up
Before we breaking down
Keep your feet on the ground
Something stays stuck
Makes no sense and no sound
Never said it out loud
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be so cruel this time?
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be such a beautiful lie?
Don't know why, I try
'Cause now I'm done inside
Don't know what it's like
To live a life of new one
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
We have the time of our lives
Lost the rest of our minds
And all your makeup
Faded down from your eyes
Now I could see what's behind
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be so cruel this time?
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be such a beautiful lie?
Don't know why, I try
'Cause now I'm done inside
I don't know what it's like
To live a life of new one
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
Break up
Before we breaking down
Keep your feet on the ground
Something stays stuck
Makes no sense and no sound
Never said it out loud
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be so cruel this time?
Where did you go?
Where did you come from?
How could you be such a beautiful lie?
Don't know why, I try
'Cause now I'm done inside
Don't know what it's like
To live a life of new one
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
And all the pain and shame
Tired enough to do nothing
Erase the stain
You left a place in my life
And you're such a beautiful lie
You're such a beautiful lie
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I love the Goo Goo Dolls, but I am very thankfull that they've grown up since Jed. Sure, some songs like Iris and Slide were probably calculated to fit snugly in the radio top 40, but we can forgive them for that because that's how most of us discovered them. (don't get upset at me because I didn't know of them until they went mainstream. It's not my fault, I wasn' alive when they released their first 2 albums). EOAC is a necessity for anyone just getting into GGD. It's not a Greatist Hits album, by the way, it's practically the opposite.
So, about the song. Superstar carwash was a major steppingstone in their aforementioned transition. That's apparent in some of it's great songs such as this one. It's fast-paced with a great hard guitar solo near the end. He's not screaming cuss words and blatant insults. He's definitley making jabs at some things most people do and Hollywood, but it's done much better. He makes jokes and turns a girl's pathetic attempt to impress or woo him against her. He seems to give up on the jokes when he gets to Hollywood, but the lyrics and rhyme work well so it's better he didn't try to force a joke.
Most of Johnny's songs can't really be summarized into meaning any one thing. Not to mention, most of the meaning can be found in the music and his voice, too. If you've ever seen them perform a song live, you know how it just brings everything home.
This song comes off as just a shot at life and all the things about it that he's sick of. It's not angry or screaming, though. It's much calmer and accepting of the fact that you could revolutionize the whole world, but you can never change basic human nature. He seems mellow and very over it, laid back and sarcastic. it's a look-back on adolesence: "And I never got serious/Til everything went black./And I ain't so curious/About ever going back." He sees mistakes he made and his silly behavior in these other people, but merely watches and responds cynically to their predictable behavior. He knows they'll get over it eventually.
Meaning of "On the Lie"? I'm not really sure. Teenage idols these days encourage teens to rebel against their parents and high school, despite how good or bad they are to them. They tell them to question everything incessently except, of course, the idols themselves. They create this cult-like world where "If you do what my lyrics say, you'll be unique and your life will suddenly have purpose". These kids are conforming to and living on this lie, being just like everyone else their age, but thinking they're doing the exact opposite.
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And I never got serious Til everything went black. And I ain't so curious That I'm ever going back. On the lie.
I think the chorus here is him saying that he never took life serious until things got really bad, and that he isn't curious enough to venture back into the old life. On the lie... not sure what that means, I think it's some sort of fence between a bad life and a good one.
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the hollywood line is awesome!