Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Pounding, it starts again
Hurting, oh where do I began?
Screaming, they dance around my head
Hoping, they maybe end up dead
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Silent it goes away
Patient oh, should I really stay?
Trying so hard to get ahead
Failure, is often where I'm lead
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Oh I must hold on
Oh I won't be gone
Oh I won't stop now
Oh I don't know how
Why I can't hold on?
Why I can't be gone?
Why I can't stop now?
Why I'm don't know how?
Here we go again (again) x7
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Hurting, oh where do I began?
Screaming, they dance around my head
Hoping, they maybe end up dead
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Silent it goes away
Patient oh, should I really stay?
Trying so hard to get ahead
Failure, is often where I'm lead
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Oh I must hold on
Oh I won't be gone
Oh I won't stop now
Oh I don't know how
Why I can't hold on?
Why I can't be gone?
Why I can't stop now?
Why I'm don't know how?
Here we go again (again) x7
Feeling it rattle, what can I say?
Really fucked up again (I feel that I can flight)
I can't fucking given in (I feel that I can flight)
Can't I ever win (I'll keep it on my mind)
Here it comes again!
Lyrics submitted by Aerion
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The chorus goes: Feeling it grab hold, what can i say? Feeling fucked up again (Ive gotta kill to fight) I can't fucking give in (i feel that i can fight) Cant I ever win? (I feel it on my mind)
These lyrics are pretty innacurate, cant be bothered correcting it all. Infact some of the mistakes are just purely retarded english: "I'm don't know how???" "oh where do i began???" sorry Aerion, but its pretty shit.
The song is basically about Jon's constant struggle within himself, against himself. Underlying this is his hatred for people... he doesn't understand it, but he just wants to kill... I'm sure there are some slightly more specific meanings, but this is the general gist of it, I think.
jonathan davis is the man... fucken psycho...
I agree, lacerated, but one thing... I think you might have gotten the lyrics wrong too... But I agree with you on your last comment. He has had such a hard life to overcome, I respect him more than I respect myself...
lmao@auntfefe To me sounds like everytime he tried to do something, his end result is failure.
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This song is about how Jon got cock-slapped silly by a big black man. The black man would cum, wait a minute, then slap him silly again. Right when the black man would start with another cock-slapping session Jon would think "HERE IT COMES AGAIN!"
Do you ass clowns realize the official lyrics have never been fucking released to this song? So shut the fuck up about what's "accurate" and what's not.
If you listen with good headphones, at the very end of the song, you can faintly hear what sounds like a car alarm in the background! I kept thinking it was from outside until I realized it was happening at the same time every time!