Second Born Lyrics
You've lost your faith in me but mom it will be all right
And the family will hold even though we're all sad
And the family will hold even though things turned out bad
No one sings along but Mom it will be all right
And the family will hold even though we've lost the means
And the family will hold in this graceless, sad routine
Sad routine
But I'm on my own like I am a first born son
First born son
It's time to swallow your pride but mom it'll be alright
And the family will hold and we'll pretend we're not hexed
And the family will hold though we don't know what comes next
What comes next
(Second born)
But I'm on my own like I am a first born son yeah yeah
Leave it alone but I am second born
(Second born)
I know what I am, and I am a first born son
A first born son.
And I will make a home and make a troubled girl my wife
And the family will hold and maybe we will have a son
And the family will hold and we'll say we've just begun
We've just begun
(Second born)
But I'm on my own like I am a first born son yeah
(First born son)
We leave it alone but I am second born
(Second born)
I know what I am, and I am a first born son
A first born son.






I just heard an acoustic of this song on youtube and some of the verses are completely different than shown here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NjbShBYW-2g
In any case, the song seems generally self explanatory: The family is going through a rough time right now... and even though was second born Stephen has to play the role of first born because either his older sibling isn't emotionally capable of the task or he/she has passed away.
That's just my take - I really enjoy this song! Can't wait for the new album... it should be here Aug. 18th!

This song is awesome I got a demo version off of torrentz and its probably my favorite following Bonfire that I've heard off the new album.

the version i heard is s little different, specifically, the second verse we wait for test results, but mom it will be alrite spent out on expert consoles, but MOOOM it'll be alrite
or something like that i don't know about sj's siblings but i know his parents divorced at a young age and his mom is currently battling an illness. she lives in portland and he did a show in portland recently which his mom could not attend :/

"I'm on my own" should be "I hold my own", I believe.
Anyway, just discovered this song a few months ago and it's great. I really relate to it. I've had to be there for my mother who's struggled with post traumatic stress and bi-polar disorder and my older sister doesn't care about anyone but herself. We have always been the only ones that have been there for each other so I really connect with this song. I've told her it'll be alright a million times.