Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Well, she lives in a fairy tale
Somewhere too far for us to find
Forgotten the taste and smell
Of a world that she's left behind
"It's all about the exposure the, lens," I told her
The angles were all wrong now
She's ripping wings off of butterflies
Keep your feet on the ground
When your head's in the clouds
Well, go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
So one day he found her crying
Coiled up on the dirty ground
Her prince finally came to save her
And the rest you can figure out
But it was a trick
And the clock struck twelve
Well, make sure to build your home brick by boring brick
Or the wolf's gonna blow it down
Keep your feet on the ground
When your head's in the clouds
Well, go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
We'll bury the castle, bury the castle
Whoa, whoa
Whoa, whoa, whoa
Well, you built up a world of magic
Because your real life is tragic
Yeah, you built up a world of magic
Well, if it's not real
You can't hold it in your hand
You can't feel it with your heart
And I won't believe it
But if it's true
You can see it with your eyes
Oh, even in the dark
And that's where I want to be, yeah
Go get your shovel (you'll be better)
We'll dig a deep hole (off without me now)
To bury the castle, bury the castle (ooh)
Go get your shovel (you'll be better)
We'll dig a deep hole (off without me now)
To bury the castle, bury the castle (ooh)
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba (ba)
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-ba, ba-ba-ba-ba
Somewhere too far for us to find
Forgotten the taste and smell
Of a world that she's left behind
"It's all about the exposure the, lens," I told her
The angles were all wrong now
She's ripping wings off of butterflies
Keep your feet on the ground
When your head's in the clouds
Well, go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
So one day he found her crying
Coiled up on the dirty ground
Her prince finally came to save her
And the rest you can figure out
But it was a trick
And the clock struck twelve
Well, make sure to build your home brick by boring brick
Or the wolf's gonna blow it down
Keep your feet on the ground
When your head's in the clouds
Well, go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
To bury the castle, bury the castle
Go get your shovel
And we'll dig a deep hole
We'll bury the castle, bury the castle
Whoa, whoa
Whoa, whoa, whoa
Well, you built up a world of magic
Because your real life is tragic
Yeah, you built up a world of magic
Well, if it's not real
You can't hold it in your hand
You can't feel it with your heart
And I won't believe it
But if it's true
You can see it with your eyes
Oh, even in the dark
And that's where I want to be, yeah
Go get your shovel (you'll be better)
We'll dig a deep hole (off without me now)
To bury the castle, bury the castle (ooh)
Go get your shovel (you'll be better)
We'll dig a deep hole (off without me now)
To bury the castle, bury the castle (ooh)
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba (ba)
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba
Ba-da-ba-ba-da-ba-ba-da
Ba-da-ba-ba-ba, ba-ba-ba-ba
Lyrics submitted by aristuma21, edited by Mellow_Harsher
Brick by Boring Brick Lyrics as written by Joshua Neil Farro Hayley Nichole Williams
Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
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its amazing how far music can come.. 24 years after it released and its one of the most heartfelt songs ive heard
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Like a lot of the other comments are saying, I think this mainly about voyeurism. If the song was about his girlfriend, then why would he use the word spy. If you are a spy it means you shouldn't be caught, that is kind of the whole point, and if you are a voyeur, the whole point of the pleasure you get from it, is the fact that the other people don't know you are watching them. See a bit of a connection there?
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I think much like another song “Anti-Matter” (that's also on the same album as this song), this one is also is inspired by a horrifying van crash the band experienced on Nov 3, 2022. This, much like the other track, sounds like it's an extension what they shared while huddled in the wreckage, as they helped frontman Garrett Russell stem the bleeding from his head wound while he was under the temporary effects of a concussion. The track speaks of where the mind goes at the most desperate & desolate of times, when it just about slips away to all but disconnect itself, and the aftermath.
I think this song is about wanting your "Happily ever after" so badly, and the frustration that comes with realizing you can't always get what you want.
you are so right,THAT"S WHAT THE SONG IS REALLY ABOUT.
I don't really agree. I think this song is about haley as a young girl always having her head in the clouds but then her dreams start to get darker and she starts coming back down to earth. She decides to bury her past and the fantacies as well.
That's exactly what I though the meaning of the song was, but I also do agree with ashbashbutterfly-only the ending. I think Haley expected something to be so perfect, when it wasn't. Then, she attempted to pretend everything was perfect, but it wasn't. So, she decided after realizing that it's not helping-to pretend-to deal with the real world; to get over her past and fantasies. <br /> <br /> Everyone has different interpretations of everything, but I think your both right and both wrong, to me. I hope you guys don't take it personally. :^)
As someone with not a very squeaky clean past, I retreated into a world of books and movies, preferring not to co-operate with reality.
"She lives in a fairy tale Somewhere too far for us to find Forgotten the taste and smell Of the world that she's left behind"
And then my family moved. New environment, new school (I'd previously been in an all-girl school, this one was co-ed), a lot of new stuff. I ended up liking this guy ("Her prince finally came to save her") that I thought liked me back, but he was just stringing me along ("But it was a trick, and the clock struck twelve"), and I had to do a lot of rebuilding. ("Well, make sure to build your home, brick by boring brick, or the wolf's gonna blow it down")
My world of books and movies had given me a very specific idea of what I wanted my guy to be, and I'd tried to shoehorn this other guy into it ("Well, you built up a world of magic, because your real life is tragic").
Now this song turns up with this timing, and I'd swear it was written about me if I didn't know better. What with all my experiences this past year, and my about to be a legal adult in a few months, I think this song is trying to tell me something.
"Well, go get your shovel And we'll dig a deep hole To bury the castle, bury the castle"
Putting this part of my life to rest, the trauma, the fantasy, is something I'm not particularly willing to do, but maybe it's about time I did - start living in the real world with real people.
that is exactly what i though seeing that i have quit a similar past. my parents divorced when i was five and so i lived in books, drawings, and the story's i wrote. i had this idea about the kind of guy i wanted and then when i found a guy and he ended up stabbing me in the back and splitting up me and my friends i had a lot of work do do on my life. that is why i love paramore, because i swear some of the songs were written about my life.
I know what you mean. I read a lot too & sometimes I think i confused reality with fiction. Like what's plausbile ans what's possible. The lyric that really gets to me is: "Well, if it's not real<br /> You can't hold it in your hand<br /> You can't feel it with your heart<br /> And I won't believe it<br /> But if it's true<br /> You can see it with your eyes<br /> Oh, even in the dark"
actually, this is a song about monarch slavery.
from vigilantcitizen.com:
" Right from the start of the video, the subject matter of the song is made very clear. The setting is totally unreal and synthetically created. A little girl, apparently a child version of the singer Hayley, runs towards a strange world, bearing monarch butterfly wings on her back, symbolizing that she is a Monarch slave. She almost reluctantly enters a symbolic gateway, representing the start of her dissociative state. The door violently shuts down behind her, which hints the viewers to the fact that this wonderland is forcibly induced on the child. The lyrics of the first verse describe the reality of the slave.
Well she lives in the fairy tale Somewhere too far for us to find Forgotten the taste and smell Of a world that she’s left behind It’s all about the exposure the lens I told her The angles are all wrong now She’s ripping wings off of butterflies
The girl lives in a “fairy tale”, which is her dissociative mind state. It is “too far for us to find” due to the fact that this world can only be found in the confines of her consciousness. The slave has been removed from her family and the real world to live in a confined environment. She has “forgotten the taste and smell” of the the “real world” she has left behind. She lives in a prison for kids, a human rat laboratory and she is constantly manipulated by her handlers. All of her senses are subject to constant pressure and pain and her perception of reality is completely distorted: “The angles are all wrong now“. She is a Monarch slave and is thus “ripping wings off of butterflies“.
Keep your feet on the ground When your head’s in the clouds
The dissociative state experienced by Monarch slaves is often described as a sensation of weightlessness. While her feet are on the ground, her consciousness is in an alternate reality or “in the clouds“. The girl in the video walks around this strange world filled with fairy tale characters which are reminiscent of those found in Alice in Wonderland or the Wizard of Oz, the stories most commonly associated with mind control. The blurriness of the scenes and the presence of mushrooms in the background refer to the use of hallucinogenic drugs during Monarch Programming. The girl enters a castle, representing her inner consciousness. Mirrors, reflections and the girl’s multiplication symbolize the girl’s fragmented/compartmentalized mind state. The girl stands still while an independent, alternate personality, looking back at her through the mirror brushes her hair. Mirrors and castles are triggers that are often used in Monarch Programming. The second verse of the song describes a disturbing reality of Monarch slaves.
So one day he found her crying Coiled up on the dirty ground Her prince finally came to save her And the rest you can figure out But it was a trick And the clock struck 12
This is the picture painted by this verse: the slave’s handler enters her “cell”, where she is coiled up and deeply traumatized. The floor is dirty. It has been documented that victims of mind control are forced to live rooms littered with feces (I can’t make this stuff up). Her “prince”, who is in fact her handler, comes in to “save her from her pain”. Handlers are often portrayed as the slave’s savior, who will guide them through traumatic events. The line “And the rest you can figure out” alludes to the worst: the “prince” came to rape her. It was a trick, he was not a prince, only a sadistic handler furthering the girl’s trauma with sexual abuse. During those repeated assaults, the slaves are forced to dissociate from reality. The lyrics of the song’s bridge aptly define this concept.
Well you built up a world of magic Because your real life is tragic Yeah you built up a world of magic
She has built, brick by brick, a wall in her consciousness that dissociates her from reality. She escapes into a world of magic due to the extreme trauma she has to live through on a daily basis. Probably because the girl’s curiosity concerning her own mind has lead her too far, the world of wonders quickly becomes nightmarish. Creepy puppets make their way out of the mirrors. The characters of her fairy tale world suddenly become terrifying. An evil-looking character, dressed as a thief holding an ax, approaches her. Is she being reprimanded by her handlers for “not following the script” of her programming? The girl is understandably freaked out and runs away. The lyrics explain this difference between reality and fiction.
If it’s not real You can’t hold it in your hand You can’t feel it with your heart And I won’t believe it
But if it’s true You can see it with your eyes Or even in the dark And that’s where I want to be, yeah
The girl runs out of the castle and falls into the grave dug by … Paramore? That is not really cool of them. Hayley gets up, throws the girl’s doll into the grave and they start burying her. At face value, this can interpreted as the burial of the “young irresponsible girl” living in a fairy tale. On a second level, this can be seen as the burial of the innocence of a child after experiencing traumatic events. Whatever the meaning one attributes to the burial, the message of the video is not to sympathetic to the girl’s quest of self-knowledge and emancipation. Seems like they’re saying “This is what you get for trying to know your real self”. "
the article says that paramore is supporting monarch slavery. my opinion is that though i do believe that brick by boring brick by paramore is about monarch slaverly, i do not believe that they are supporting this or trying in any way to portray the worlds it is said some slaves see in a way to control minds. i believe that its more a warning about this cause, as it says in the song "if it's true, you can see it with your eyes and even in the dark and thats where I want to be." paramore is a christian band associated with the warning of many topics teens go through such as suicide and depression, child sex slavery, and yes, monarch slavery. just my opinion, though.
Technically paramore is NOT a christian band,(though they are made up of christians, they don't preach their morals.) as well i don't think you can definitely conclude that this is about monarch slavery. I've looked into this, and i can see how it COULD be the case, but considering as paramore has never confirmed this, it could just be assumption. It's definitely a possibility.
This is very confusing. How is it about monarch slavery? There's not even a single hint about rape or anything like that. You're thinking too hard. Maybe try looking up the actual meaning before you say stuff like "Her 'prince' came to rape her." Literally, no one said, "This is what you get for not trying to know your real self." I feel like your mind is in a really bad place right now. Please talk to someone.<br /> <br /> I wish you the best in life, kid.
@eva1160905 Ugh, alright man. I didn’t want to be reminded of this shit but here we go. <br /> Please, if you’ll notice, this comment is from, like 11 years ago. I was 12. I didn’t know what the fuck I was talking about, and for some reason SongMeanings will not let you delete comments or disable your account because this is a nightmare website, apparently. <br /> Suffice it to say that I don’t believe this anymore, but you’re right, I was in a ridiculously dark place and was going through some pretty traumatic shit. I talked to people eventually when I had the ability to do so. <br /> Rest assured that I’ll be 24 in a couple of weeks and am no longer a traumatized and confused 12 year old who is searching for conspiracy theories in paramore’s music. The little girl who posted this comment is no longer the kind of person who would believe this shit or use it to cope. <br /> Thanks for your well wishes, though. I’m doing alright these days.
ngl, this is one of the songs im most excited to hear. i understand most people think the lyrics are cheesy, but i like it :) and a music video for this song would RULE. dont even try and deny it, you all want to see hayley in a big princess's dress and the guys dressed as princes.
hahahahahah! i know right
of course everybody wants to see Hayley as a princess, I bet you already have tried to.
HAHA u were way off....
i love this song.
It's basically about someone who's life sucks and so they live in a fantasy world and the singer is telling the story and repeatedly telling them that they should just ditch their fantasy world because it's not real.
I love the way Hayley wrote this song. To me it's about how you can get so caught up in what you think is this fairy tale of being so madly in love and then have it suddenly taken away, even if the person/thing taking it away is what you thought what your fairy tale was.
The "Burry the caste" thing is kind of like covering up something so beautiful that you built up and wanting to get rid of it. It's like the caste is what was built up over time during this fairy tale she was living and shes kind of giving up on it. Kind of like she just wants it gone and to no want to remember it.
I think this song is fantastic and the lyrics tell a story you can really follow if you know a lot about the band and their past. I can tell the rest of Brand New Eyes will be simply amazing.
I love your interp. I totally agree:)
You, awesome person, just hit the nail on the head. Look at the video. That exactly what shes trying to say.<br /> <br /> <br /> youtube.com/watch
People that have heard this from the MTV Unplugged Paramore performance awhile back say that the lyrics are a little misleading to what the song will sound like. I hear the song is NOT going to be some soft rock thing, but a hard fast beat.
Hayley's vocals on this track are said to be the best yet.
And yes, this is a Brand New Eyes song.
i want to correct a line... im pretty sure its "keep your feet on the ground when your heads in the clouds"
and i think this song is about realizing the reality of life and "dig a deep whole" may mean that the fairy tale she was living was a big part of her life and its going to take alot to let it go
I totally agree. I always thought it was about how if you built a world of magic and didn't believe in anything else then when Reality hit you you were going to fall....hard
I agree with this but I think it could be a bit broader than just living in a fairy tale.<br /> Having just gotten out of a relationship which wasn't what I thought it was, i personally relate this to that, but I think it could go with any fantasy or desire or idea of perfection that anyone had really, that got proven wrong ?
I think that she said building your life of magic to compare it to building it with bricks, and the instability of a world built with magic. <br /> <br /> The wolf, who come from the three little pigs, i think in this song also represents reality knocking this girl down and taking her house, therefore, leaving her exposed to the outside world.
I agree but i think that there saying how you go from the inocence of a child to relizing all the bad things in life "when the clock striked twelve" meaning she got older and she starts relizing it was all a trick "but it was a trick" and the real world is nothing like her imagination and the magic she knew of. there are some things in this song however i dont understand like "if its not real and you cant hold it in your hand..ect".
i agree with ahaa. it's about the letdown and heartbreak of reality. we all want so badly to live with our heads in the clouds, but there's always something that will cause us to come crashing back down, and force us to "bury the castle".