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After all the time
After you
Had you seen me with someone new
Hanging so high for your return
But the stillness is a burn
Had I seen it in your eyes
There'd have been no try after try
Your leaving had no goodbye
Had I just seen one in your eyes
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Could you tell
I was left lost and lonely
Could you tell
Things ain't worked out my way
Wish the best for you
Wish the best for me
Wished for infinity
If that ain't me
Give it up
I can't give it up
Give it up
I can't give it up
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Give it up, I can't give it up
After you
Had you seen me with someone new
Hanging so high for your return
But the stillness is a burn
Had I seen it in your eyes
There'd have been no try after try
Your leaving had no goodbye
Had I just seen one in your eyes
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Could you tell
I was left lost and lonely
Could you tell
Things ain't worked out my way
Wish the best for you
Wish the best for me
Wished for infinity
If that ain't me
Give it up
I can't give it up
Give it up
I can't give it up
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up
To someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Give it up, I can't give it up
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When I hear this song it reminds me of a relationship I had with someone 14 years ago. Though we lived in different countries, supernatural things would have us somehow always cross paths, one time at a stop light and most recently at the mall last year.
There was a novel worthy, intense love between us, but there were also a lot of wounds that we inflicted on each other due to pride and immaturity and because of this we couldn't even talk to each other for more than a few hours without getting into ugly arguments. He moved on and got married. I dated a ton of guys that all happened to be little replicas of him and though I got several proposals, I couldn't give it up to the guys...and I couldn't give him up...always had a hope I would still be with him, but I am not and am still single.
When I hear this song, I don't think of a conversation between a guy and a girl. I think of girl saying all those words to a guy...and in the last part "Give it up" I think of the girl reasoning with herself, by saying "Just give it up already, he's married" but then her heart responds hopelessly "but I can't give it up, I'm hopelessly in love for infinity".
I'm writing this, cause you never know. Maybe it might help someone. If you have a love that has deeply wounded you, but you know the type of love you both share is rare and supernatural and can't be topped, don't let your scars no matter how painful they are, keep you bitter. The sting of loneliness and separation from your true love is far worst. As hard as it is FORGIVE.
So true.
i am currently going through a very difficult and hurtful relationship and have been trying to work it out for over a year, and considering to truly just let it go... We were madly in love for two years prior before things just took a turn. the love we once had is probably the only thing that even keeps coming back. i must have played this song over 100 times hoping i would find the answer or strength to the right decision.. and i came across your message.. it brought me to tears not only because of your story and how i can relate, but because you wrote it on his birthday... i dont know this may be my message
i wish my ex read your comment. i love her so much. i forgave her, but she couldn't.<br /> i always thought there's something really special between us, that will live forever, and keep us together forever. i never had such feelings with anybody..<br /> <br /> it is so hard to move on, but i know i should. she was close to happiness, when she decided to leave everybody behind, to be with me. but i think i made a mistake there. and she didn't accept me back. <br /> <br /> i truly hope she will be happy.. love you, Aysel...
@lamb1978 i think im here ever 6 months for the last 4 months just to read this comment and im just thankful there is someone else that shares the same pain as i<br /> i hope you have recovered, and i too hope to recover one day
The meaning of the song is apparent in the first two verses of the song. The two have drifted apart but still cant seem to forget each other. The man has been more successful moving on, but this is just a facade. Even while with other girls, he is always peering over at her. The girl has a different story. She cant bring herself to take the same route as the man (being in another relationship). Even though there was a breakup, she had never meant for it to be a permanent goodbye. The man knows this is troubled by it. If she had been more resolute with her feelings, he would have had an easier time moving on. The linger hope the two have for each other being together prevents them from truly moving forward.
This song fits perfectly in the nearly flawless album the xx has created. It follows the general theme of losing something/ giving something up (probably love) that all the other songs on the album do. I love the loud clap, symbol smash, or whatever it is during the chorus. Just smoke a little reef and listen to this album, tranquility will ensue.
This song is about timing with love and never being on the same page with 2 people that desire eachother still, after space and time. They see one another, but she has now found love thus 'cant give up someone elses touch' yet both still feel the compassion and they are once again on different avenues. She doesnt want to risk ruining something potentially wonderful with someone new over someone she already had a past with, which was passionate but deciptful. She knows its not a path she wants to continue on anymore, but still craves him and wonders why they couldnt make it. By the end she is saying too little too late, I cant give up what I have now, and he is full of regret.....
This song really reminds me of Wicked Game by Chris Isaak, the same kind of guitars and it has a certain sparseness about it (just like the rest of the album by the way, I always picture endless miles of road whenever I hear their music). I really like this song though...
Yeah they are totally pulling some Wicked Game inspiration here, I love it.
The song is pretty self explanitory. I can't give "it" up to someone elses touch. (sex)? Thats the way I view it, partly because thats exactly how I feel now after my ex moved away. Sort of a depressing song but theres something to it which is comforting. Also, if you like faster paced stuff check out the martyparty remix of this. Thats how I originally found out about this song.
Ok, so I think she left still loving him, but he didn't know because she didn't say goodbye. Then he moved on, but he said had he known how she really felt he wouldn't have. She saw him, and he realized the truth. She still broke his heart, though. He tells her to move on, but she insists that she can't.
Starting with the music itself screams nostalgia, the echoing of the guitar, everything is really slow with the reverb. And this perfectly mimics the kind of emotions that are associated with a sense of loss, of hopelessness. The vocalists are also speaking to each other in the wind, hoping that that somehow, someway they will hear each other and some kind of real connection or reconciliation can take place... Now for the lyrics themselves...
"After all the time After you Had you seen me with someone new Hanging so high for your return But the stillness is a burn"
He's wondering if his attempts at forging a new relationship have been noticed and have made any sort of emotional impact on her. He wants her to seduce her, albeit, cruelly by making her feel jealous. However he acknowledges that his attempts so far have been unsuccessful, noting the stillness is a burn. He feels even more hopeless now.
"Had I seen it in your eyes There'd have been no try after try Your leaving had no goodbye Had I just seen one in your eyes"
In this stanza he begins to reminisce. If he had just noticed sooner that she was going to leave, the utter shock of her doing so would not have been as traumatic as it was.
"I can't give it up To someone else's touch Because I care too much"
Finally confessing her feelings, she admits that she is still holding on to him and the past. This makes it very difficult for her to move on.
"Could you tell I was left lost and lonely Could you tell Things ain't worked out my way"
"Wish the best for you Wish the best for me Wished for infinity If that ain't me"
He is ready to acknowledge his pain for her at his darkest place without her. He able to see a ray of hope for the both of them, but yet still a sense of regret and almost a sense of martyrdom at the last line, "wished for infinity, if that ain't me". Still, a part of her courses through his veins.
In the next series of lines he repeatedly tells himself to give it up, and she echoes that she cannot give it up. He is trying to force himself to fully move on, just as she realizes that she cannot. In summation, they've both become entrenched in an emotional stalemate with themselves, where it will lead is anyone's guess.
i love the hand clapping :D
I can't give it up To someone elses touch Because I care too much
so true!!!!
The part where he says "Give it up" kind of sounds like he's saying he can't let go of her all alone. He's kind of asking her to "Give it up" so that he won't have any doubt."If it ain't me" then "Give it up" so i won't be hanging on for so long.
When one already has a g/f and the other won't accept it any longer than it appears the song is about it being over forever.