Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Checkmate honey, beat ya at your own damn game
No dice honey, I'm livin' on the astral plane
Feet's on the ground,
And your head's goin' down the drain
Oh, heads I win, tails you lose,
To the never mind
Where to draw the line
An indian summer, carrie was all over the floor
She was a wet net winner,
And rarely ever left the store
She'd sing and dance all night,
And wrong all the right out of me
Oh, pass me the vile and cross your fingers,
It don't take time know where to draw the line
Hi ho silver, we were singin' all your cowboy songs
Oh, you told Carrie,
And promised her you wouldn't be long
Heads I win, tails you lose,
Lord it's such a crime
No dice honey, you're the salt,
You're the queen of the brine
Checkmate honey, you're the only one who's got to choose
Where to draw the line
Checkmate, don't be late
Take another pull
That's right, impossible
When you got to be yourself
You're the boss, the toss
The price, the dice
Grab yourself a slice
Know where to draw the line
No dice honey, I'm livin' on the astral plane
Feet's on the ground,
And your head's goin' down the drain
Oh, heads I win, tails you lose,
To the never mind
Where to draw the line
An indian summer, carrie was all over the floor
She was a wet net winner,
And rarely ever left the store
She'd sing and dance all night,
And wrong all the right out of me
Oh, pass me the vile and cross your fingers,
It don't take time know where to draw the line
Hi ho silver, we were singin' all your cowboy songs
Oh, you told Carrie,
And promised her you wouldn't be long
Heads I win, tails you lose,
Lord it's such a crime
No dice honey, you're the salt,
You're the queen of the brine
Checkmate honey, you're the only one who's got to choose
Where to draw the line
Checkmate, don't be late
Take another pull
That's right, impossible
When you got to be yourself
You're the boss, the toss
The price, the dice
Grab yourself a slice
Know where to draw the line
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This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
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This song is one of those overlooked filler songs that actually rocks. The more you listen the more there is to love. My brain gets stuck on "Wrong all the right out of me" I think it's an awesome concept. Great song, why not more posts??
@regular_freak <br /> Dude. How is this an overlooked filler song?? It’s the title of the Album, first song on the album, first Single from the album that went double platinum at the height of their career. I’m guessing that you just found Aerosmith after watching Steven Tyler judge one of those dumb singing competition shows. Please educate yourself and quit being one of the tools that clog up this site with ridiculous bullshit!!!
It's like a lot of Aerosmith songs... the lyrics consist of descriptive phrases, strung together in a cool sounding way. But they're essentially random, describing random situations, that aren't related in a way that particularly makes sense - a series of cool images, cobbled together into a rhyme scheme. That aside, the song is a great rocker, probably one of their 3 or 4 best tracks. It drips with attitude, and drives like crazy. It's dead simple, and works because of the power of the slide riff and the force of the lead vocal Their live version of it can be pretty transcendant, especially the Joe Perry slide playing. If anyone thinks it's easy to write one of these, try coming up with a riff this bulletproof. As a lyricist though, Steven Tyler is kind of a paradox. Some of his lines are so cool, brainy and phonetically powerful. But mostly, a great line is followed by a lazy one, and they never seem to add up to any kind of description of anything specific. Surrealistic coolness, it's great if you don't mind there being no point. What you hear first here, is all you get. if that's enough for you, it works like crazy. This track is on my top ten greatest rock songs of all time list. The performance is just so good. If the words don't really mean anything .....Who cares?
okayyy...but whats it about ?? yeahh amazing song. and i saw them do it live. i was speechless, for the entire concert. but i mean whats it about? dont get the lyrics at all. i wanna say sex though.
"A Indian summer, Carrie was all over the floor She was a wet net winner, and rarely ever left the store"
carrie was all over the floor ? haha omg.
@nicolelovesrhcp If you're still curious nearly 12 years later, a "wet net winner" used to be slang for one who found (and kept) bundles of cocaine or weed that would regularly wash up on shore, particularly in S Florida back in the day.<br /> <br /> In context, Carrie had a huge amount of drugs that she watched over very carefully - ('never left the store') 'Store' meaning where she kept the loot.
it's about sex and drugs. "living on the astral plane" is a reference to your mind being in a different state of reality.
"feets on the ground and your head's going down the drain" = obvious drug reference. "pass me the vile", "draw the line", both drug references. Drawing lines of cocaine. And, the cover of the album is a line drawing of the group. Double entendres everywhere.
"heads I win, tails you lose" is synonymous with "checkmate". You have a girl in a no-win situation, she must choose where to "draw the line" - sexually and drugs.
great song about cocaine this was the height of the drug taking it was all down hill after this album until permement vacation all sobered up
I really got to like this song and recognize it as a classic Aerosmith song. To me this song is either about a situation that you can't stop or control or a situation where you can't be stopped.
I've admire the riff ever since i heard it, i love it, i playe it everytime i'm testing a ne guitar. And the song is real fun too.
..question... where it says "No dice honey, I'm livin' on a astral plane ", doesn't the song go "..."i'm leaving on an ass to blame"?
nope it says im livin' on a astral plan and your other suggestion doesnt make sense. however awesome riff and awesome song cant believe so little have commented on it!
it's a classic.