Raised in a small town just north of New York City, James began her musical journey singing and taking piano lessons and, by the time she was ten, writing her own songs. In her early teens, James started performing around New York City and, soon after, began driving down to Nashville and gigging at venues throughout Music City.
Emily has come a long way both musically and geographically, having started her career in Nashville alongside powerhouse producers, Ian Fitchuk (Kacey Musgraves) and Jacquire King (Kings of Leon). She established herself as a true songwriter whose music has continued to blossom and expand into many genres. As she’s matured, Emily’s soulful essence has taken center stage, capable of powerful, standout choruses that give way to tender inflections.
After Nashville, Emily felt the West Coast calling and decided to expand her horizons by relocating to Los Angeles. Once in L.A., James gained the confidence to venture into self-producing, creating songs in her own bedroom instead of in a studio – adding a level of introspection to her songs.
“I definitely attribute a lot of what I know about production from what I’ve picked up from the producers and engineers I’ve been fortunate enough to work with. Being able to create in such a private, intimate space, and yet have limitless possibilities staring you straight in the face is, for me, a beautiful way to create. You get to eliminate any elements of self-consciousness and be totally free with your thoughts and ideas.” – Emily James explained
Over the course of five EP releases, Emily has developed her own sound and songwriting style that features nuanced production and an emotional vulnerability that complements her dynamic vocal range.
- Zangba Thomson, Bongs Mine Entertainment
"Hello! I’m Emily James, I am a singer/songwriter originally from New York, now based in LA. I’ve been writing my own music since I was 10, and, pretty much since that time, have known that music is what I want to do for the rest of my life. I’ve been releasing music completely independently up till now, having just signed with Nettwerk Music Group. Over the past few years I’ve begun to produce my own music, in addition to collaborating with fellow writers and producers, and that has been fun. It’s opened up a whole new world of creativity for me which I’m super excited about!"
if you weren't you
Emily James Lyrics
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Filled with laughter and light
And two blue colored eyes
So I could see all the beauty
In everything around me and everyone that I meet
You've taught me strength and how to carry on
Sing my song, swallow my pride and admit when I'm wrong
So while I've got you next to me
I don't have a fancy way to say this
But what's the use in overcomplicating
'Cause no amount of poetry
Or rhymes fit into melodies
Could possibly express the barest truth
Yeah, honestly there wouldn't be a me
If you weren't you
I promise to embrace every mistake
I learned from those before me
But stay true to what I believe
I'll keep close to heart the words you built me on
Shoulders back when you stand
Dream as big as you can
I plan to try to own my life and live it up
And I just hope I make you proud
I don't have a fancy way to say this
But what's the use in overcomplicating
'Cause no amount of poetry
Or rhymes fit into melodies
Could possibly express the barest truth
Yeah, honestly there wouldn't be a me
If you weren't you
If you weren't you
I know that this is many years belated
I've been searching for the perfect way to phrase it
But if there's anything you've taught me
It's perfection isn't permanent
Like the family that swears to stand by you
I love you and I don't know what I'd do
If you weren't you
If you weren't you
The song "If You Weren't You" is a heartfelt tribute by Emily James to someone who has had a profound impact on her life. The song is about gratitude, growth, and love. It speaks directly to the person who has helped Emily to become the person she is today. In the opening verse, Emily praises the person for helping her to see the beauty in the world and teaching her to be strong and resilient. She acknowledges that she is still growing and becoming, but thanks this person for being there for her in the journey.
The chorus of the song is deeply personal and emotional. Emily doesn't have a fancy way of saying how grateful she is because there are no words that can express the truth. She believes that poetry and rhymes cannot capture the depth of feeling she has for this person. She then goes on to say that honestly, there wouldn't be a "me" if it weren't for "you". This line is a powerful statement and demonstrates the impact this person has had on Emily's life.
The second verse picks up where the first one left off. Emily promises to embrace her mistakes and stay true to her beliefs while keeping close to her heart the words her mentor has taught her. She plans to own her life and live it to the fullest, hoping to make her mentor proud. The chorus then repeats, emphasizing once again the impact this person has had on Emily's life and how essential they are to her sense of self.
In conclusion, "If You Weren't You" is a tribute to someone who has helped Emily James become the person she is today. It is a testament to the power of love, support, and mentorship. Emily's lyrics are deeply personal and heartfelt and are guaranteed to resonate with anyone who has had someone in their lives who has had a profound impact on them.
Line by Line Meaning
You've given me a world and a life
You have provided me with a life full of experiences.
Filled with laughter and light
My life with you is joyful and happy.
And two blue colored eyes
You have given me the gift of sight to see the world's beauty.
So I could see all the beauty
Through my eyes, I could see the unparalleled beauty that surrounds us.
In everything around me and everyone that I meet
You've taught me to appreciate every experience in my life from people to places.
You've taught me strength and how to carry on
You have taught me the value of strength and resilience in the face of hardship.
Sing my song, swallow my pride and admit when I'm wrong
You've taught me to find my inner voice, accept my mistakes, and be accountable for my actions.
But I'm still becoming who I'm supposed to be
I am still evolving and growing as a person, and you are accompanying me on this journey.
So while I've got you next to me
And I'm grateful to experience this growth cycle with you by my side.
I don't have a fancy way to say this
I cannot convey the importance of your role in my life through elaborate vocabulary.
But what's the use in overcomplicating
There is no benefit to complicating or exaggerating the truth of this emotional sentiment.
'Cause no amount of poetry
There is no suitable amount of art that could capture the depth of my appreciation for you.
Or rhymes fit into melodies
Even the most beautifully written songs cannot encapsulate my gratitude for you.
Could possibly express the barest truth
The most minimal representation of my feelings would still fail to express how much you mean to me.
Yeah, honestly there wouldn't be a me
Without you, I could not have become the person you see today.
If you weren't you
Without you, my life would not be the same.
I promise to embrace every mistake
I pledge to accept every mistake I make as a learning opportunity.
I learned from those before me
I will study the experiences of others and endeavor to learn from them.
But stay true to what I believe
Regardless of my experiences or those shared with me, I will persist in remaining true to my morals and values.
I'll keep close to heart the words you built me on
The words of wisdom you imparted will remain dear to my heart and continuously guide me.
Shoulders back when you stand
When faced with adversity, I will stand tall and be strong, emulating your strength.
Dream as big as you can
I will continue to pursue my greatest ambitions while keeping your wisdom in mind.
I plan to try to own my life and live it up
I will work to bring every joy into my life, to own my life, and to live it to the fullest.
And I just hope I make you proud
I am driven to make you proud of my accomplishments and my growth as a person.
I know that this is many years belated
I am aware that this gratitude-expression is delayed by many years.
I've been searching for the perfect way to phrase it
I have been hesitant to express my gratitude in fear of not doing justice to it.
But if there's anything you've taught me
As a result of my experiences with you, I have learned a valuable lesson.
It's perfection isn't permanent
Perfection cannot be sustained, as it is constantly threatened by external factors.
Like the family that swears to stand by you
Families adapt to changes and thrive with each other's support through thick and thin.
I love you and I don't know what I'd do
I love you and am grateful for you. I don't know how my life would be without you.
If you weren't you
My life would be irreversibly different without you.
Writer(s): Emily Dieffenbach
Contributed by Michael V. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
Vijant1
My daughter just told me this song is about me. I’m absolutely blown away by these beautiful lyrics and the heartwarming melody. You are truly talented. You need to record this and release it...I’d buy it in a heartbeat...
Emily James
this made my day- thank you so much 🥺💜 the song is available on Apple Music, Spotify, etc. :) https://music.apple.com/us/album/if-you-werent-you/1487728486?i=1487728487
Vijant1
@Emily James yeah we have been listening to it. You’re very talented keep singing. Hope you are doing well. Keep safe
Don kay
What a talent. Just a beautiful song. Thank you.
Emily James
thank you!! 💛🤗
Chip Olmstead
Emily, this is pure sweet magic.
Jesus Mendoza
Could you please publish the tabs? I would love to learn this
Tarina Sparks
Absolutely Inspiritually Beautiful and so Much More!!!💖❤💖 Thank You My Beautiful Emily James and God Bless You Always
Amelia Massey-Gottselig
This is gorgeous. 🥰 Reminds me of my daughter.
Emily James
🤗❤️